Hessel: Deacon Hyland Fraser modelled a life of service, charity and justice
Through their ordination, permanent deacons are called to service at the altar, service to the Word of God, and service of charity and justice.
And while the first two comprise the most visible aspects of diaconal ministry, it is the third, ministry of charity and justice, that most strongly identifies the deacon (see Acts 6: 1-6). Few have been able to balance this “three-legged stool” better than Deacon Hyland Fraser.
Deacon Hyland was ordained on May 31, 2014 and died on February 5, 2021 (the first Friday of the month), at age 74. His death followed a yearlong struggle with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS).
He leaves behind his wife, Harriet, 12 children, 29 grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. He is also mourned by the members of Holy Trinity Parish in Spruce Grove/Stony Plain, where he served for the past seven years. He is also remembered fondly by the many children that he and Harriet foster-parented over many years.
Born in Heatherton, N.S., he and Harriet moved to Alberta in 2006, after most of their children had moved to Alberta to find work. While in Nova Scotia, he had a dairy farm, he worked in the insurance field, he owned a building supplies store, and he served in municipal politics for 13 years. Upon his arrival in Alberta, he started a home building company with two of his sons.
He and Harriet directed the RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) program at Holy Trinity, shepherding dozens of adults to the sacraments and continuing to support them following their sacramental initiation.
He was a man of intense prayer. Nearly every homily included an exhortation to the congregation to cultivate their prayer life. Each year on Divine Mercy Sunday, Deacon Hyland and Harriet would lead the congregation in the Divine Mercy Chaplet: his favourite prayer. Harriet and their children were with him, praying the Chaplet when he died.
Deacon Hyland and Harriet served at the Marian Centre. Each Friday they would meet in prayer with the other volunteers, sort clothes, and serve the clientele with hot coffee, clothes, and, most importantly, a kind word.
He had liturgies for the young people at the Edmonton Young Offenders Centre once a month. At the beginning of each liturgy, each person received a hug and a big smile from Deacon Hyland. His constant message to them was: “God loves you. There is nothing you could ever do that would make Him stop loving you.”
One Sunday, some of the youth wanted to surprise and thank him. They wrote a song and sang it to him after the liturgy. There were tears running down his face. He was there for them on Christmas. How difficult for a young person to be incarcerated on Christmas, and so, he was there. At the end of every liturgy, the young people were reminded that he and Harriet had spiritually adopted each one of them and they prayed for them every day.
Deacon Hyland was on the Canadian board of Mary’s Meals, an international organization dedicated to feeding hungry children in the poorest parts of the world. He promoted fundraising for Mary’s Meals in the local schools. He was the spiritual adviser for the Edmonton Zone of the Society of St. Vincent de Paul. He regularly assisted at masses at local nursing homes.
He assisted Archbishop Richard Smith in his outreach to the various parishes, acting as chauffeur and master of ceremonies. On the day Deacon Hyland died, Archbishop Smith visited him, gave him the Sacrament of the Sick, and imparted the Apostolic Blessing.
Deacon Hyland and Harriet were a model of a couple in ministry. Prior to Deacon Hyland’s ordination, Harriet said: “We have been working as a couple for 45 years; nothing will change. We are happy to serve the Lord together.”
There is no doubt that the work of “Team Fraser” will continue to bear fruit long into the future. Yet, we will miss his leadership, his guidance, and his passion for serving the people of God.
“And I heard a voice from heaven saying: ‘Write this: Blessed are the dead who from now on die in the Lord.’ ‘Yes,’ says the Spirit, ‘they will rest from their labours, for their deeds follow them.’” (Revelation 14: 13).
The funeral mass will be held on Feb. 12 at 1 p.m. with Archbishop Smith as the celebrant. The mass will be livestreamed.
-Deacon Patrick Hessel was ordained in 2007 and has served at Holy Trinity Catholic Church ever since
13 thoughts on “Hessel: Deacon Hyland Fraser modelled a life of service, charity and justice”
Terry and I are so sorry to hear about Hyland. Our hearts go out to you and your family.
Our condolences and prayers are with you, Harriet and family. Hyland was an incredible disciple of Jesus and touched the hearts of so many by his kind and patient ways. He was a wonderful role model of what it looks like to truly follow Jesus on a day to day basis. Hyland provided powerful leadership within the Edmonton Cursillo Movement in his quiet, committed service to others. We rejoice for Hyland as he is welcomed into God’s loving embrace!
Lots of love and prayers, Dave and Phyllis Kornder
To the siblings of Hyland: So sorry to hear of Hyland’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. R.I.P. Hyland.
Hyland demonstrated to us on a pilgrimage to Our Lady of Guadalupe how to reach out to the poor and see Christ in the poor, especially by an incident when he blessed a couple begging on the street, and asked for their blessing. That memory will always remain with me. My condolences to Harriet and the family, and assurance of my prayers for him and for you.
Harriet and family
Deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family. Deacon Hyland was a most
amazing Brother in Christ and a most amazing of being as Christ Like as one can be. I was able to go on a pilgrimmage to Medjugorje with 35 other brothers and he was such a blessing to us all. I was shocked to hear of his passing but know that my brother is with Christ and will suffer no more. Thank you Hyland for being such a fine friend and example for all us Medjugorje brothers!!!
So sorry to hear of Hylands passing Harriet
Laverne was keeping me updated and must say she was hurting
My prayers are with all of you and may Hyland RIP
Our condolences to Harriett, Hyland 12 children, grandchildren, brothers and sisters. Hyland was such a good man. May he rest in peace. I’m sure Kaye is welcoming him with open arms. Our prayers and thoughts are with the Fraser family. from Terry and Clare Kennedy, St. Andrews. Sadie also expresses her sympathy.
Harriet and Family: So sorry to hear of the passing of Hyland. I was a school mate of Hyland in Fraser’s Grant School. We had an excellent education in a one-room school and also, lots of fun. He and Harriet were certainly a role model couple in all that they did for many people. I am sure that his Mom, Kaye, and his Dad. John D. are happy to see him once again. You will be in our prayers at this most difficult time. Marilyn Rogers-Lynch, Michael, Erin and Correen.
Sending condolences to Harriet and family on Hyland’s passing.
So sorry to hear about your loss; our sincere sympathy to Harriet and all the family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Len and Sophie Robertson
Dear Harriett and family, may God bless you and comfort you. Hyland was a wonderful, kind person, a true example of God’s love.
We are so sorry to hear of the news of Hyland’s passing. My husband was wondering why he hadn’t seen him in alot of years, I guess now we know, You aren’t in Antigonish anymore. Passing with ALS is a horrific way to go, but I’m sure he and you all made the best of it through the Lord. May God bless you Henri and your family..
Our deepest sympathies to you and all your family. Our thoughts and prayers. ❤️❤️
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